When they did finally manage to chat, the bride-to-be wasn’t happy that she hadn’t been able to tell her the news immediatly.
Despite Amanda explaining it wasn’t really her fault – she was still annoyed.
She sent an engagement present and hoped things would just be forgotten – but she soon found out that wasn’t the case.
A while later Amanda, the bride-to-be and some friends were chatting and the subject of the bridal party came up.
One of the friends asked outright if Amanda was the maid-of-honour, assuming she would be after years of friendship.
Amanda writes: “I thought it was a fair enough thing to assume.
“I was kind of relieved that at least I’d get my answer then and there.”