What Jennifer Garner learned about relationships through her divorce is something we *all* should keep in mind

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Jennifer Garner is always teaching us great lessons. Like, why we should have a “Yes Day” with our kids or how to make the perfect pizza dough. And this weekend, she offered another really sensible lesson on privacy and respect.

During an interview on CBS’ “Sunday Morning”, Garner talked about how the constant scrutiny and discussion of her divorce from Ben Affleck (who she shares her three children, Violet, 12, Seraphina, 9, and 6-year-old Samuel with) has been challenging. “I really feel the stress of it. I really, I could cry talking about it,” she said during the interview.

We’re used to seeing Garner smiling at us from movie sets and Instagram, but as positive as she is, constant divorce talk took its toll on her.

“Everyone says, ‘Oh, you’ve had to go through this in public.’ The public isn’t what’s hard; what’s hard is going through it,” she explains.

Of course, Garner and Affleck’s divorce was scrutinized more than most due to their professions, but many mothers can relate to the stress of a separation. And whether you or your partner’s private actions are being scrutinized by a small group of friends and family or by millions of followers, it hurts and can come as a bit of a shock.

“Divorce is a surprisingly public event,” author Beth Joselow wrote in her book, Life Lessons: 50 Things I Learned From My Divorce.

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