Beware ‘kittenfishing’ – the new annoying online dating trend many of us are guilty of

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The world of online dating just got weirder

Kittenfishing, by contrast, isn’t quite as bad as pretending you’re a Sports Illustrated swimsuit model who moonlights as a chess champion, but it’s still a worrying behaviour – and one many of us are guilty of.

Kittenfishing is what someone does when they present themselves in an in an unrealistically positive way. I.e. with a few tweaks (fibs) thrown in to make them look and sound better.

Think, several filters, professional lighting, numerous attempts at poses and maybe even a cheeky sprinkling of photoshop.

Basically, you are still in there…somewhere.

Worried woman with head in hands
It’s quite as bad as catfishing though to be fair

But kittenfishing isn’t just about the all-important profile picture. It also extends to your description of yourself.

So, maybe you’ve tweaked your height a little bit. Or added some interests which aren’t strictly true – all in the name of coming across as someone you believe is interesting and well-rounded.

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